How To Prepare Yourself For Anal Sex

Sex is a procedure unto itself. While if you defecate before anal sex might be helpful, the rectum and the anus are only the passages of the fecal matter. Spooning is an example of an anal (and regular) sex position that makes your guy feel larger. And given the sensitive nature of trying out anal sex for the first time, it'd surely be helpful to have that open view of each other.

This means take it slow and introduce foreplay (especially if you're new to anal sex). Yes, I know, it's not exactly the sexiest advice I can give, but your butt is not gonna function the same way after your first time having anal sex. You might not like every anal sex position on this list.

Some people like to shower or clean themselves before having sex, and the same principle applies for anal play. Lube makes the anus smooth and slippery, like a vagina, so that a penis can enter it more comfortably and easily. We Trans just like Gay men use the same tool to clean our inside, the main tool that we use is called Enema Douche” we use this for cleaning our lower intestine.

Silicone-based lubricants are a great choice for anal play, as they will stay slick and not dry out like water based lubricants. Once you start having anal sex, you can't go back to vaginal immediately afterwards because you'll be bringing bacteria to that sensitive area.

Some guys also think it's okay to have condomless anal sex if they're the insertive (top”) partner. However, if there's ever occasion to try out lube for the first time, it's when you try anal—and then it should be used every time you have anal. Most people who have attempted or done anal sex would tell you that it's the starting point that hurts the most.

Doggy style is the most basic position for anal sex and usually the starting point for a lot of couples. I have always loved the feel of a man's warm body behind me, his arms wrapped around me, his penis against my butt. This creates small tears in the anus where it is easier for HIV to get in. As with any other type of sex, safer sex is absolutely necessary during anal sex.

Simply being clean enough for sex is another important concept rarely talked about, despite the fact that many people have questions about sexual hygiene , and a number of receptive sexual partners who prefer to not engage in the act without using an enema or at least taking a shower first.

Having anal sex without ensuring your back door is clean after a bowel movement, can lead to some problems, because unlike the vagina, the anal cavity anal toy is not self cleaning. While maintaining anal hygiene is important, people tend to be too fastidious when it comes to cleaning up before anal intercourse.

Make sure to use warm water so that your sphincters don't tighten, but don't make it so hot that you will burn yourself (I've seen several patients burn their rectum from hot enemas!). The bottom partner may also enjoy the "full" feeling of having a penis inside him; the intimacy of being penetrated by another man; and the erotic thrill of "being fucked".

The Turtle is an excellent anal sex position for those who like to feel small and submissive during sex. But according to sex therapist Lisa B. Hochberger , the small tears to the anus that may occur as a result of anal aren't the sign of anything serious. Get used to the sensation by asking your partner to insert their finger first, or to use their tongue (don't forget protection!) or a small sex toy.